Contractor and ex navy is back in yoko, he's been really distant and I have a gut feeling he's up to no good. Past may be repeating itself. Anyway, looking for someone, don't have to be  a P.I., to see what he's up too. May need a man cause I think he may be inside the brothels or massage parlors. I have his pic- hotel and room #  in yoko.
I would like pics of what he is up too. Willing to pay someone for their time, but must be able to follow him at night cause he works all day and no need to then. I want to know if he's seeing one person on a reg basis or if he's just out with whoever is available. Please contact me ASAP!!  After years of his cheating, I think I'm finally done, just need the proof because he will lie through his teeth saying I'm just crazy.

if you already know he cheated in the past, chances are he is doing it. why torment yourself, you already know what the real thruth is

Why waste the money?

Sadly those in the relationship are always the last one to figure out the truth because they are emotionally involved and not applying common sense.

Posted By yokota on 05-11-2012 9:41 AM
Sadly those in the relationship are always the last one to figure out the truth because they are emotionally involved and not applying common sense.

been there, done that. trust me, save you the trouble.

Posted By sauce on 05-11-2012 8:10 AM
if you already know he cheated in the past, chances are he is doing it. why torment yourself, you already know what the real thruth is

Sad, but true. 

Trust is so very important in a relationship.  Don't waste your time on s/one you can't trust.  Move on and find s/one you can trust with your heart.  Best of luck to you.......

um...why waste the time worrying, or money on trying to find someone. you only want proof so YOU can let go of it, it has nothing to do with him lying...he's obviously lied in the past so what is you having a picture to hand him going to do to help the situation any.... move on

dont thik thats true!i belive ppl can change IF THEY WANT TO REALLY! but if u have a gut feeling and r willing and ready to go on the whole investigation of him,that should tell u sumin hun!BUT if u can get the evidence,is good for proof if doing a divorce and can not chepen you out or try to giv u nothing!best of luck hun,so sorry your going thru this!

Ok everyone, yes im sure he's cheating or at the places married guys should not be, but i NEED PROOF , ladies you know when your man is cheating, we all get that gut feeling, he's going to tell me its all in my head and im crazy, blah blah blah,,, so i need pics for my divorce. 20 yrs is long enough, kids are grown and i want a man who knows how to treat a woman who has never been anything other then a loving wife. This fool has been single for 20 yrs while i have been the married one, raising kids, and doing what i was suppose to do. I want my fair share in the settlement, thats all, nothing more , nothing less. I just want to see his face when i produce actual PROOF while he's calling me crazy!! lol I will pay someone to do this, he's right outside the gate in the Honch in YOKO... Please someone, do this for me, ive wasted enough of my life with this loser.

because he's going to tell me its all in my head, im crazy, blah blah,, typical guy lingo... i need proof for the divorce and also just to put it in his face. 

i just need Proof, thats it, i dont want him anymore, but i also want him to know that I KNOW... and for our divorce that he's not going to see coming. I will move on when my divorce is final. 

I truly feel for you. I know too many women like you. My very dear mother-in-law was like you. She knew he was cheating and had been doing it since they were a young couple; however, she always wanted proof to show him that she wasn't crazy. In reality, I believed my mother-in-law wanted so much to prove that she “was crazy and wrong”. She, just like you, was a devoted, loving wife. Please don't be like her. My mother-in-law should have gone through with the divorce so she can benefit by getting half of everything...instead...she wanted to capture him in the action and what she ended up with was "literally nothing". Why was that you ask....well....he Knew that she was not leaving (based on past history) and probably would never be able to leave...so he cashed in his 401k, defaulted on the farm my mother-in-law was living on, and he moved to another country where he is living with a young wife...much younger than his own daughters. My mother-in-law is getting some of his monthly retirement funds but believe me...it is nothing compared to what she could have gotten had she stopped with the nonsense of "getting proof". Love and trust in yourself. Any man will see what a fool he was for loosing you if you are indeed the type of woman who a man would want to come home to. If you would want to come home to yourself, someone loving will want nothing more than to rush home and be with you. These are the words I told my mother-in-law and to all my sisters. I would tell my children the same thing. I sincerely hope all things go well with you.

I believe "Niki" above said it best and very elegantly.

If you still want to spend some money seek no further:

Detective agencies recognized by the US Embassy doing business in Japan.

Argus Research
2-1 Yaesu, Chuo-ku, Tokyo 104-0028
Tel: 03-3277-0099 Fax: 03-3823-3838

D-Quest Incorporated
2F Fuji Building, 1-5-3 Yaesu, Chuo-ku, Tokyo 103-0028
Tel: +813-5201-8800 Fax: +813-5201-8801
http://www.d-quest.co.jp/eng2/index.php
E-mail: info@d-quest.co.jp

Los Angeles Office
3580 Wilshire Blvd., Suite 1705D, Los Angeles, CA 90010
Tel: 213-387-6507 Fax: 213-387-7397
http://www.i2brain.org/
E-mail: info@i2brain.org

Japan Detective Association
1-23-15 Hyakunin-cho, Shinjuku-ku, Tokyo 169-0073
Tel: 03-3365-0015 Fax: 03-3365-1760.
http://www2.odn.ne.jp/tantei/" target="_blank">http://www2odn.ne.jp/tantei/
E-mail: ndahonbu@pop16.odn.ne.jp

Nihon Shoko Research
Sagami Bldg., 2-17 Kanda Suda-cho, Chiyoda-ku, Tokyo 101-0041
Tel: 03-3251-8121 Fax: 03-3251-8128
http://www.e-nsr.co.jp/personal/index.htm

Spectrum OSO Asia (Japan Office)
Level 6 NITTO Bldg.
126 Yaraicho, Shinjuku-ku, Tokyo 162-0805
Tel: 03-6673-4299 Fax: 03-6369-3569
http://www.spec-oso.com/
E-mail: kokamoto@spec-oso.com

Teikoku Detective Agency
4-20-1 Sendagaya, Shibuya-ku, Tokyo 151-0051
Tel: 03-5411-1324 Fax: 03-5411-1318
http://tanteisha.co.jp/
E-mail: mado@tanteisha.co.jp

Lol if you want to really make him stop, there's an office not too far off base run by the local Yakuza..... (Kidding; please don't really do this)