Hello Im a wife of a seabee who will be deploying to the navy base in Yokosuka and had some questions for any military wives from the base or near it. I heard a lot of things about Japan from other wives and im just concerned. Is there many strip clubs or prostitution in the area my husband will be? If so can you give me names of the places and how far from base? I trust my husband very much its just that im being paranoid bc this will be our first long deployment and it would suck if hes in an area like that.
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Posted By Tirani on 12-08-2010 2:23 PM
it wouldn't matter... if CFAY invited them onto base every night.
Posted By tulipsonly on 12-08-2010 7:44 PM @ Rhymenoceros - That is the stupidest argument ever. And so very juvenile. Like when a kid gets caught doing something and they say, "well, Bobby did it too" or "Sally did it first". Jesus, yes, women cheat. Annnnnnnndddddd. The reality is that cheaters come in all shapes, sizes, genders, and races. So what's your frigg'in point dude. She was a woman asking about men cheating because she's married to a MAN. Don't turn this in to a "well, uh, women do it to so don't bash on men". I think all cheaters are pathetic. Male or female.
@tulipsonly: You too.
@missyrn: I agree with you comment to CBwife, "Good lick on your upcoming separation."If there is no trust in a relationship, then there is nothing. Lack of trust tends to push the un-trusted party away. It adds unwanted & un-needed stress the relationship.If it happens, it happens. Then you deal with it. If it happens & the person is honest about it & openly tells you about it (without you having to ask) then, chances are, they genuinely feel remorse & maybe it could be put behind them & move forward in the relationship.However, if they hide it & it gets discovered, then that raises some serious questions about that person.I would rather have someone come up to me & admit that they messed up & made a mistake, than try to hide it, or deny it when they get caught.Seriously, CBwife, constantly worrying about whether your husband is going to cheat is going to cause more problems in the relationship than it's worth.How would you feel if your husband constantly e-mailed & called you & quizzed you about your loyalty & if you were cheating?Wouldn't that get on your nerves after a while?Just relax & enjoy your marriage. Deal with things as they come. If you spend your time worrying about "what if..." you're going to lose out on time remembering why you love your spouse in the first place.